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Middle age gainers

38 is middle age? Say it ain't so!

I too have noticed that, especially with the growth (no pun intended) of feederism communities online having much younger members.

I suspect that's because broadband (high speed) 24/7 Internet became mainstream a little over 20 years ago, along with the "smartphone," a term that didn't really enter the American consciousness until '07, when the original iPhone was released. I had a smartphone well before then, but it was actually a combo PalmPilot with a mobile phone built-in. Also because in the 90s, Dimensions was pretty much the only game in town. Anyway! I digress.

It's certainly more difficult, I think. It can be harder to figure out when to eat and to get enough calories in. I think that's more because of life responsibilities like full-time jobs, perhaps family responsibilities, and whatever else you may have going on. But it's certainly possible.

I find my body doesn't really agree with HFCS (a truly vile ingredient) so I minimize consumption of it, which basically means no soda in the U.S. Not that's the worst possible thing - too much of it makes me sleepy, and soda also seems to cause water retention and bloating, and even decreases my appetite. Also not the worst thing since HFCS is a major, perhaps even the #1 contributor to diabetes, which is why many countries have banned it.

One thing you have though... if your profile is correct, you're already 264 lbs, which is already pretty chunky. This probably means it wouldn't seem that weird if you end up gaining even more, and you might already have a pretty good appetite already so perhaps it wouldn't be that hard to eat a bit more to gain.

The main thing I think is to not just eat junk food all the time like that hyper processed packaged stuff. There's plenty of "real food" that's high in calories. Even a burger typically has vegetables on it, and those toppings are unlikely to impact your appetite much. You can also have salad that's drowning in creamy Caesar dressing, Parmesan cheese, and optional bacon bits.

Another thing to maybe try to watch out for is sodium (often from salt and seasonings). While you do need to have some, odds are you'll probably have way more than enough.

So to recap:

- Some junk food should be okay but it shouldn't be the primary staple of your diet. You'd regret it if you do.
- Minimize HFCS consumption to almost nothing.
- Don't have to avoid vegetables and should probably have some.
- It can be really easy to go way overboard on the sodium so try not to do that. Some canned goods can have a lot of it.

A multivitamin pill or some sort of nutritional shake like Ensure Plus, Equate Plus (Wal-Mart knockoff of Ensure Plus), Fortify Plus (Kroger knockoff), or Boost may be worth doing too.
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Middle age gainers

How about old gainers?
I'm 71 and a feedee / fat admirer but it's guaranteed every time I'm asked, or mention, my age I'm told I look many years younger. I remain to be convinced that this would happen if I was skinny.
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Middle age gainers

Geometry Dash Lite :
How about old gainers?
I'm 71 and a feedee / fat admirer but it's guaranteed every time I'm asked, or mention, my age I'm told I look many years younger. I remain to be convinced that this would happen if I was skinny.

Have you noticed any specific health advantages or disadvantages to gaining weight as you’ve aged?
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Middle age gainers

MRFATS53:
How about old gainers?
I'm 71 and a feedee / fat admirer but it's guaranteed every time I'm asked, or mention, my age I'm told I look many years younger. I remain to be convinced that this would happen if I was skinny.

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Middle age gainers


Lauralordelaure:
Have you noticed any specific health advantages or disadvantages to gaining weight as you’ve aged?


i was really fit until i was about 40, before i started gaining. looking back, when i but on my first 100 lbs, i really was living large - booze, eating like crazy. and then the pandemic hit, i wasn't exercising at all and eating all day long out of boredom. so eventually i got to the point where i'd tripled in size!

but i had no health issues, and i chalked that up to my having been so fit and athletic for so many years prior.

well, a couple of years ago, my luck ran out. all of my blood work results went bad, my blood pressure shot up... i think it was just the combination of my lifestyle catching up and my age.

after some lifestyle changes i am back to being healthy again. i lost some weight, but am starting to put some of that back on again now, hopefully in a more healthy way so i can keep going!
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Middle age gainers

I refuse to consider myself “Middle aged” at 41. Mainly because I’m 25 in my brain

My body has never been “small” - probably UK size 12 being the smallest I’ve ever been when I was in school/beginning of college.

It’s definitely ramped up in terms of ease of gain/difficulty in losing fat as I’ve gotten older. My belly is so stubborn but not sure that’s anything to do with age and probably more to do with genetics.

I think my working from home coinciding with turning 40 created the conditions for the perfect storm to gain a lot very quickly
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